Whether Networking, Interviewing for a Job or Meeting New Colleagues for the First Time, here are Some Things to Keep in Mind that will Make a Good First Impression
There are many strategies to keep in mind to “make a good impression” upon first contact. These items are also some of the main things interviewers are looking for in a candidate:
- Be mindful of the other person’s time. Ask if this is a good time for them before proceeding into the discussion (or identify another time that would be better). When attending a scheduled meeting or interview, ask how much time the other person has, and hold to that timeframe.
- If you were referred by a mutual friend or acquaintance to the person with whom you’re meeting, be sure to reference that person in positive terms. This helps to build a “personal bridge” and establish rapport.
- Take notes throughout the discussion. A person who doesn’t take notes is simply not interested or engaged enough to take seriously.
- Arrive to the meeting or interview on time and fully prepared. This shows that you respect the other person, and that you are a real professional. Learn everything you can in advance about the company, the opportunity, and the interviewer.
- Be focused on the other person’s interests and needs, more than your own. Present yourself as a solutions provider, rather than a job seeker. Offer to be of service and show genuine interest in helping the interviewer with his or her business challenges.
- Once you confirm the interviewer’s primary needs and problems, share some “Accomplishment Stories” that relate your past successes directly to the prospective employer’s situation. Making this “connection” will help you stand-out as the top candidate.
Here are some things NOT to do, when trying to make a positive first impression:
- Take advantage of the other person’s generosity or time
- Arrive unprepared to talk intelligently about the employer and the company
- Dress inappropriately for the meeting or interview
- Be focused only on your own needs
- Fail to make any connection between your past experiences and the prospective employer’s needs or challenges
- Forget to follow-up with a thank you note
- Ask no questions of the interviewer
- And many, many other mistakes that are all too common!